Good Afternoon Antoinette, 
 
Thanks for your question. 
 
With what you disclose about the aches and pains it definitely seems that you need some sort of pressure relief. 
 
Have a look at either our Latex 100% Natural Topper or our Laygel Topper.
 
Our Latex Topper is fully breathable and a very responsive material. This means it gives you the support and pressure relief but also bounces back to its original shape a lot quicker. This has a depth of 5cm.
 
Our Laygel Topper is our softest topper overall and is foam as opposed to Latex, still giving that pressure relief. This has a depth of 7.5cm. 
 
Both of these toppers give a similar sink in sensation to memory foam but as they don't rely on heat retention to adapt to your body they come in feeling much cooler. 
 
Alternatively, as our toppers are very much medium feeling overall, you could also check a company online called Latex Sense. They have a much wider range of toppers than we do and they have different depths and densities giving a wider range for your needs. This means effectively you could have a softer Latex topper than our medium density one. 
 
I hope this has answered your questions fully but if you do have any further queries please don't hesitate to contact us on 0161 437 4419.
 
Kind Regards, Lee.